Health Advice

Are you tired always watching your partner ejaculate in just two minutes, when the real action is yet to start?

Are you tired to see his penis goes on vacation within 2minutes.

Now, if you experience this with your boyfriend, there are two things you should not do and things you should do

  1.  Don’t ask him if it has happened before. No, no no, that is like asking him if his penis is any good at all.  Making him to feel terrible will make it harder to find a solution.

   2. Don’t say or act like you’re the one causing the problem. He may be in need of medical attention, he is just stressed, having anxieties, or it has been a while since he last had sex.

   3.Don’t get angry or walk away. Sometimes, because you feel let down, you might be tempted to get angry and say nasty things. This may degenerate into a fight because a man’s erectile problem is a bullet to his pride. Walking away will be a blow in the gut.

  4. Try to help him out. There are things you can do to help a man get over the problem. For weak erection for example, giving him a hand massage or oral can go a long way. For premature ejaculation, you guys can both do the stop-start technique which works. You can just ask if you can do this or that to him.

   5. Make him relax and regain his confidence. Like mentioned earlier, being stressed or anxious can cause these problems. So you can suggest (initiate) a different form of sex that does not require penetration. You could ask him to touch you or you touch him instead.

  6.  Lovingly suggest seeking medical attention. If the problem persists after trying everything over a number of days, not just once, then you are in the best position to suggest medical attention. Do it nicely and tell him you can’t wait to tumble again.